Do you ever get that feeling that things are off between you and your partner? Yeah? You can feel the silence in your gut. You see the phone being flipped over when they leave the room? Hell that’s if the phone is left in the room. You try to bring it up and express your feeling but they brush you off. But then.. the Big Bang! You see the phone, you see the proof, you see the messages, you see the photos, you see it all.. it hits you like a Mac truck. You scrounge up your phone to take photos of what you’ve seen so you have the proof. You calm yourself down.. you walk away… you step outside for fresh air.. you send a message to your bestie, but immediately regret sending it because now they know your partner is a real piece of shit. They remind you this isn’t the first time you’ve witnessed things of this sort. They tell you how stupid you are, they tell you how your partner will never change. (Clearly!) With your bestie being miles and miles away you realize you’re alone, you have to face this shit that you just saw alone, you have to face him. Not only do you have to face him, you have to stand your ground because he is a narcissist, he will make you feel crazy.
To the girls who can relate 